Thank you so much for sharing this. My best friend of 4 years has done some very hurtful things to me, and some how found away to make it my fault. This article means a lot, it helps me realize it’s not my fault! It’s so so so sad to let her go, but there’s nothing I can do for her. It really does break my heart thinking about how if she came to me instead of pushing me away, I would have helped her, like I had been doing for the past 4 years. Like I said before it’s very sad, but there’s nothing I can do, her actions are her actions.
I apologize…for some reason I didn’t see this comment until now. I am so glad the article helped you! A wise person in my life often says “Their actions are about their character. Your actions are about yours.” We can only control how we show up and it sounds like you’ve already grasped that! Now it’s been a few months since you wrote that response so I hope you have healed even more…I would love to hear how you’re doing :)