Thank you so much for responding — it sounds like you’ve had some experience with a Narcissist. When you read my article I’m guessing could you see some of the parallels?! I wondered if Jamie had some kind of personality disorder and I definitely felt like my life was slowly being destroyed when I was in contact a lot. I felt like I was in dark hole — it was awful and confusing. Even with all those messed up emotions I stil couldn’t see the damage that was being done — pretty crazy eh!