Thank you for your wisdom on this topic — what you said resonated with me in many ways! Can you help me understand from your perspective why Narcissists feel the need to “ghost” or give the silent treatment instead of actually deaing with the issue at hand and finding resolution? I’m glad you enjoyed #8 so much :). I agree with relationships mirroring an earlier trauma and therefore people repeatedly get in relationships that are the same. I agree with you — I believe they’re either working through unresolved issues in a subconscious way or simply getting in those relationships because the feeling is so familiar.