Hi hun, I agree with you 100%…we get to decide how much we give and if someone else is experiencing Fish Love toward us we choose whether we really want to stay in that relationship. I think it’s still possible to experience True Love even when someone else is only experiencing Fish Love. It may hamper a desire to give again in the fture if we let it. I prefer to see the forest for the trees and if someone is incapable of truly loving me I get to move on to someone who can, harbouring no resentment to the other who isn’t able. I choose how I want to give and there are many people out there who do deserve my true love…and yours :).